Thank you for saying it better than I could ever. I 100% agree.
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Yeah but that's self destructing behaviour and addiction for ya. It's not a rational behaviour yes but that does not mean that the person us dumb or does not make effort. They just needs help.
Dan is in a serious bad shape and that's Jaaekung's fault. He has no rights to be angry with him or to treat him that way. He may be slowly getting aware of his feelings for Dan but he still has a long way to go if he ever want a chance at redemption. And not flip out on him at every occasion and not accepting the sex Dan offer him (bc he think thant's the only thing he want) could be a start. Just saying
You’re absolutely right, I mean does he want to die before his grandma! He should stop that please!
i’m (probably) going to get downvoted so bad for this but this is ONE of the rare times where jaekyung was valid in his anger towards dan.
the doctor told him that he can’t drink while taking his medication, and yet he still does it. i think jaekyungs actions were appropriate at a time like this because dan is quite literally playing with fire. drinking while taking medication is dangerous af and dan should know this considering he’s a physical therapist and he worked at a hospital for christ sake. as dumb as his actions are, he’s not stupid. he’s like 30 years fucking old. he knows that he sleepwalks when he gets wasted and is damn near suicidal. he literally tried to drown himself and he would’ve died if jaekyung never found out where he was. (fuck u dan ur making me sound like a jaekyung defender) i think dan needed this reality check. could’ve jaekyung been a little bit more gentler? yes, but dan needs to understand that he’s putting himself in danger by being reckless.
i would even go a bit further and say they need to admit dan into a rehab facility for his alcohol dependency problem but the story probably wont go that way.