So first story... not gonna tell him you were basically about to cheat on him?

I mean, after not hearing any news from your bf after 3 months? usually ppl thing they got dumped.

I'm not sure in what kind of reality you live in, but usually if you don't hear anything from your bf after 3 months you'd think something bad happened to him, not that you were dumped.

So true.. Maybe they are really self centered that they only think about themselves, get depressed, and lost confidence.