There's a scene from the game Clinical Trial game that seems relevant to your comment.
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DUDE: the last thing I want to do is make you feel
uncomfortable or make you feel like I expect something to happen
ANGEL: what if I want something to happen
DUDE: it's just with what you've been through ANGEL: how long after getting assulted am I allowed to want stuff to happen
DUDE: Angel ...
ANGEL: youre the mental health professional you tell me. Do I not feel bad enough? Am l acting too normal? Am I moving on too quickly? Do I seem unreliable? Am I not acting like a real victim would? How bad should it hurt? If I kill myself would anyone believe me then?
DUDE: Angel, I believe you. I have never doubted you for a second you haven't done anything wrong
ANGEL: I don't want to be treated different because of it
DUDE: That makes sense it was wrong of me to say something so presumptious.
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(I couldn't remember dude's name)
Anyway our uke is not only a victim. He has been going through therapy a couple of years now and getting better. So let's not pigeon hole him.
Sorry for not clarifying but this comment was meant to address comments that were labelling him as someone being a "long-time freak" and that they "forgot" how freaky he was. While yes, I agree that making his identity solely tied to his traumatic backstory is not the way to go, I did not write this comment with that intention of tying him down to it. It doesn't shift away from the fact a majority of his gained experience was from being non-conned, something some people in the comments have seemed to overlook. I did not mean for this comment to give off "guys he was an SA victim, so let's not
while we may have forgotten how freaky deaky the uke was, just remembering the reason behind his supposed "talent" was that he was often getting non-conned by his ex so... erm... yeah that experience r not of good origins vro