Real talk tho, how hard is it to just break up with another person if you’re cheating/fe...

I think people who cheats, don't want to quit the partner that do loves them because it satisfied their ego knowing that there is always a person waiting for them, it's kinda like they are going to cheat and when they don't feel like cheating anymore they know they can keep it undercover and stay with the person they're cheating on, most of the times they put theirselves with someone that they do love emotional but not physically and cheats on them to satisfy the physical part which is fucked up, but I'm not a cheater so I don't know what goes to their brain, I heard some of them says that's it's the other person fault that they cheat because something the relation not being interesting anymore but it's kind of a narcissism behavior, soo yeah they just take the relationship for granted most of the time...

Mhm that makes sense. I had (key word “had”) a close friend who proudly confessed to cheating on their bf. She said something along the lines of her bf “just wasn’t manly enough” or “not putting in enough effort” for her. Which, okay, if he wasn’t putting in the effort into the relationship, then I get why she would want to break up with him and she’s allowed to feel that way. But she didn’t break up with him and instead CHEATED on him then broke up with him a month or so after the fact. Which i suppose is better than staying with him for years after cheating, but the point is, she didnt HAVE to cheat on him at all if she just broke it off before she made that decision. Either way, I completely reevaluated my friendship with her and that completely changed my view of her and cut myself out of that friendship since I felt like I couldn’t see her the same way anymore. So, yeah, like you mentioned, that excuse of it being their partners fault is definitely something a lot of cheaters use and is in my opinion absolutely egregious behavior .