the fact that he wasn't sure he would be able to restrain himself next time was icky asf (...

whatevermans April 10, 2025 6:52 pm

the fact that he wasn't sure he would be able to restrain himself next time was icky asf (ch. 15).
idk why are we even glorifying a top who's willing to do the bare minimum of not shoving it in despite the bottom being in severe pain

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    Trainwreck April 12, 2025 12:59 pm

    About chapter 15, I get where your coming from, but what I'd like to point out is that he's overthinking about hurting his lover at the start. The bar is on the floor, and I agree, absolutely, the bare minimum. We appreciate this top and how he's scared to hurt or scare the bottom again, he's upset at himself and he's reflecting, that's one of the points that make this story endearing. I guess appreciation can seem like glorification sometimes. I hope you can appreciate the main point of the story too; of their transformation, their love story, and their development not just as a couple but also as their own characters.(๑•ㅂ•)و✧

    whatevermans April 12, 2025 2:41 pm
    About chapter 15, I get where your coming from, but what I'd like to point out is that he's overthinking about hurting his lover at the start. The bar is on the floor, and I agree, absolutely, the bare minimum.... Trainwreck

    Friend... I really REALLY didn't want to pick this manga apart, bc, obv we all know that we have so many MUCH worse titles... But that chapter. ugh. he is scared of losing control after losing it in the hotel if I remember correctly, when Kanato said he was scared. it just irked me so so bad... and suddenly I was like... why are we celebrating the bare minimum in the first place ╥﹏╥
    I'm sorry for souring the comment section!! and thank you for being nice...

    Trainwreck April 13, 2025 9:20 am
    Friend... I really REALLY didn't want to pick this manga apart, bc, obv we all know that we have so many MUCH worse titles... But that chapter. ugh. he is scared of losing control after losing it in the hotel i... whatevermans

    Don't worry, I agree too if it was an irl situation, if that thought was shared to me by a friend or by a lover I wouldn't feel safe lol. I guess, is the fact that we don't see enough tops like this in fiction that it surprised most readers. Don't worry about expressing a different opinion. It was actually nice to see a differing perspective from everyone and it did broaden my own perspective on the story too! This was a great exchange of perspective(⌒▽⌒)

    whatevermans April 13, 2025 10:52 am
    Don't worry, I agree too if it was an irl situation, if that thought was shared to me by a friend or by a lover I wouldn't feel safe lol. I guess, is the fact that we don't see enough tops like this in fiction ... Trainwreck

    Aw bless you

    Iris April 18, 2025 7:09 am

    I interpreted i as his fear of being unable to control himself running away from him and making him think crazy thoughts, but not that he would ever actually end up doing it if it came to that. I get where you're coming from tho.