no i feel you 100%. it seems less serious cause this is fiction and these are characters and we know that they’re gonna fall in love but in real life this kind of behavior is weird and annoying it also depends on preference and boundaries but as someone who has problems w people like that too i get it. some people just don’t realize until something big happens, and it shouldn’t be like that of course. i hope we see some good real development of the ml listening to mc
You get me! :') I'm sorry you have to deal with it too, it's genuinely so emotionally exhausting trying to deal with people like that. Especially if you also live with them.
Wishing you peace and respect!
Maybe going to be an unpopular opinion but hate people like Ian who barrel over boundaries and don't value your words when you try to enforce them unless you have a mental breakdown or something serious happens. Like they're not intentionally bad people, they're just incredibly selfish.
I'm probably traumatised by having had too many people like that in my life so that colours my view of Ian, and I'll try to reserve judgement until we find out his backstory and if he grows more considerate. But man, it's really hard not to hate his guts at the moment.
Eunsan on the other hand... I LOVE. He doesn't have to keep Ian in his life at all, but he's doing it for his brother and even questioning whether he should be judging the present Ian based on his past. But with that said... bro, someone you don't have that sort of relationship with nuzzling your crotch is 100% sexual harrassment and a big red flag. Eunsan could use some awareness in that department :'))