he never said anything about liking women either(?)

vital organ April 7, 2025 7:02 am

i’ve come to a conclusion that yeowoon is on the aroace spectrum, it’s just a headcanon of course but from what we’ve been reading it seems like he never actually had interest in anybody in general(?). it’s a spectrum so it’s not unusual for him to feel attraction, just that it’s so rare, and for the first time in almost three decades lol. anyways i’m happy he’s finally rethinking everything, it must be difficult but he’ll get there eventually #trust.

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    Hasegawa Tazio April 7, 2025 7:09 am

    I guess thats why I find him so relatable lol

    Mintsprout April 7, 2025 7:54 am

    We know he’s had girlfriends before and is not a virgin, so I assume he’s always thought himself just straight, but now Jigu is challenging the sexuality he thought he figured out in high school.

    Though I think it’s the BL “only gay for this one person” type of trope. I swear it’s only because Jigu is good looking and Yeowoon’s a sucker for pretty faces (づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ

    Snowtiger April 8, 2025 4:28 am
    We know he’s had girlfriends before and is not a virgin, so I assume he’s always thought himself just straight, but now Jigu is challenging the sexuality he thought he figured out in high school. Though I t... Mintsprout

    I like to think it’s the opposite. just because I’ve seen that trope played out so many times I cannot count on all my fingers but I don’t think they’re it’s just this because the author is actually making us come up with theories and stuff about his sexuality and actually having a character question their sexuality and go through that rationalization of questioning and challenging and trying to understand why do I like this, do I like that, am I into this, and why is that? and most authors that use that trope wouldn’t go the extra mile of doing that add subtext!!! so I think the author isn’t using that typical troupe but just actually having a character properly figure out their sexuality in a way that’s relatable. I also know he’s lost his virginity so my rationality or conclusion/confirmation would be that he’s demisexual since he didn’t really feel any attraction whatsoever to a lot of the previous people that keep asking him out and he had girlfriends but none of them ended up to have a long lasting relationship. he has finally found a romantic attraction to that has made him feel something that he hasn’t felt before.

    vital organ April 8, 2025 7:09 am
    I like to think it’s the opposite. just because I’ve seen that trope played out so many times I cannot count on all my fingers but I don’t think they’re it’s just this because the author is actually m... Snowtiger

    ohhh i agree with this i think so too