
It's not completely that friend's fault either, he was ready to ask questions because he wanted confrontation and communication. But his girlfriend did the exact opposite like he said, if she even said that she was uncomfortable talking about it that would still be communication. But what she did was dance around the subject like she had something guilty to hide

Idk what ur talking about dude but I’m only referring about Gujoon here. Because his lack of confidence he very easily let what other people say change how he saw his bf. On top of that he further fans those flames by taking what his bf says out of context. This is the difference between giving the benefit of the doubt to other people and already making up your mind about how they feel and only waiting them to give some ambiguous answer that suits ur warped perception about issues you’re having with them. Gujoon is fully convinced he’s being used bc of what others THOUGHT about his bf rather than actually talking it out with him.

I thought you were talking about the latest chapter where the friends sat together and talked about this. Either way you're only blaming Gujoon cause you already convinced yourself it's all on him. You think his ex can say he's just dating for fun when it's just 1 of the blatant proof that he's always acting like he's ready to pack it all up and leave Gujoon. Obviously he would be insecure if he's regarded as a fleeting thought, leaving him to play of guessing instead of ever saying anything personal or anything that would make the emotional wall his ex put less obvious. Don't try to pull "out of context" when you can't even accept that THIS is the context. You don't need to mental gymnastics to figure this out

I’m not saying he’s the only one at fault, I’m just saying he didn’t give his bf any room to explain himself or elaborate because he was so caught up in his own head. Ofc it could’ve worded better but I’m just saying the lack of communication and coming to conclusions before really talking about what they think sucks.
And this is why you’re your worst enemy in any relationship stop asking questions in a way that isets up a person to say only one thingthis is driving my crazy omfg