I think you swapped the names of ash and lyle
Fair point but it's also very valid to say that it feels wrong to engage in an act where you're partner has not explicitly given you concent for the exact acts . Like idk if its just by having actual kink experience but it's important that when you're engaging in kink both parti4s know exactly what's going to go down. Also Ash making the safe word be a word he KNOWS Lule struggles to use has wrong connotations too.
This is all to say, this is fiction tbh and idc I and many people have read worse but this feels worse because I feel like it's presented in a way where Ash does not THINK this is selfish. Anyway I just hope coming chapters have lots of aftercare and reassurance and anyone that might be interested in kink spaces do not get their info from bl manhwas ..
Oops yes I did thank you for clarifying I was writing fast he he (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
Honestly I don’t think the author intended for the crowd to take it this way I think the author wanted to lean in to ash’s dominance also he’s doing it on purpose because he wants lyle to stop hiding how he feels or what he wants to say because they’re in equal standing no it’s not healthy but ash has his proves too… knowing ash he’ll most definitely be in aftercare mode after most likely will feel bad when he finds out why lyle took the punishment instead of saying what he wanted also I’m pretty in to bdsm myself I can’t even consider this play and if it is very loosely the dialogue plus the roughness of it just don’t quite hit the mark 2 me lol
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OMG I agree with you! It actually annoys me whenever people say Ash is being mean and becoming a red flag, because I don't think so. We can clearly see that Lyle is able to decline, reject, and physically push Ash away if Lyle really wants to.
I think the hardest part to break is he actually wants to please ash but because he was raise to be a dominant alpha who should be perfect at everything sex and reproduction included it’s very hard for him to be submissive because it feels as if he’s being treated like an “omega” but again his family made him that way I don’t see how people ignore that ╥﹏╥
I’ve been reading comments about ash being unwilling but sometimes the way people are raised affects their ability to engage in sex and it can even cause them to feel shameful because Lyle never had a healthy relationship with sex everything is new to him and he’s putting his trust in ash if he didn’t want to do it he wouldn’t he’s definitely choosing to do it because it’s him but that’s just my opinion if you go back when they do kink things like this he always says something about his upbringing how it would be considered “shameful” or embarrassing” it’s hard for him now because sex is no longer a duty but a pleasure but because it always Carried a responsibility I think it makes him feel shameful to enjoy it this is all my opinion tho ! ╮(￣▽￣)╭