had to say this again

Momo April 4, 2025 2:44 pm

sometimes i wonder how far should these tropes go? we all understand that it is fiction, however people normalizing liking this are also in turn desensitizing themselves. in my opinion, nothing was done tastefully.

if you think this is a good.. please take a break from your phone!!!

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    sun April 4, 2025 3:14 pm

    tastefulness is key!

    Momo April 4, 2025 3:33 pm
    tastefulness is key! sun

    agreed, trauma can be handled in much better/mature ways.

    Miken1097 April 4, 2025 4:55 pm

    That wasn't the point. No one normalizing it. Where did you get that? But this is a really good psychological yaoi that doesn't have a happy End. Spoiler alert not everything has to be happy in the end.

    Momo April 5, 2025 8:31 am
    That wasn't the point. No one normalizing it. Where did you get that? But this is a really good psychological yaoi that doesn't have a happy End. Spoiler alert not everything has to be happy in the end. Miken1097

    never said i wanted a happy ending

    Miken1097 April 6, 2025 6:31 am
    never said i wanted a happy ending Momo

    Tasteful means doing something that would appeal to the user. Something can still be good and still be untasteful.

    Momo April 6, 2025 10:44 am
    Tasteful means doing something that would appeal to the user. Something can still be good and still be untasteful. Miken1097

    no. tasteful means doing something in a way that is “showing good aesthetic judgment or appropriate behavior” this extends to showing depictions of abuse or ‘bad things’ in a way that is purposeful. in easy words — it isn’t there just for the sake of it. this whole story was just “oh let’s add this for shock value” the end.

    Miken1097 April 6, 2025 1:05 pm
    no. tasteful means doing something in a way that is “showing good aesthetic judgment or appropriate behavior” this extends to showing depictions of abuse or ‘bad things’ in a way that is purposeful. in ... Momo

    Yes and no, because appropriate and aesthetic can differentiate depending on person. The yaoi is a psychological and we don't get any built up so there is no way to say that it is purposeful or not because that is the point of the book. Shock value only counts towards something that has a previous story leading onto the end.

    AnotherFlyOnTheWall April 6, 2025 8:13 pm

    Personally, I think the fact that the terrible stuff happening in the story is actually acknowledged as bad and not brushed over as it is in so many popular BLs is kind of more tasteful than pretending it didn't happen at all or romanticising it. Yeah, this story isn't for everyone—it has no likeable characters and is thoroughly toxic, but at least, it owns the toxicity. Of course, there's better, more tasteful stuff out there too.