I agree with the other comments that he might be an aromatic. There are spectrums that most people doesn’t understand and that’s okay. Aros mostly doesn’t feel romance towards another person but that doesn’t mean they cannot make romantic relationships. But for Yoomin who is in a completely different spectrum deserves to know what he feels, they were in a relationship for 7 years. But there is also a possibility that he doesn’t know it himself. It takes courage, time and acceptance to discover oneself and he looked like he doesn’t understand what spectrum he belongs to.
I cannot judge him because he was never rude or an asshole towards Yoomin. And we can’t blame him either. There are a lot of nuances when it comes to romance and how people view it. All of us has different ways of how we want to be loved. Yoomin’s feelings are completely valid and so does he.
But—it’s a little too late. PS. Don’t let my man Hyeondo bury himself with anxiety again. ╥﹏╥
Hmm,do you have some sort of link or videos or article that you could suggest for me to better understand about spectrums? This is my first time hearing of that
I agree with the other comments that he might be an aromatic. There are spectrums that most people doesn’t understand and that’s okay. Aros mostly doesn’t feel romance towards another person but that doesn’t mean they cannot make romantic relationships. But for Yoomin who is in a completely different spectrum deserves to know what he feels, they were in a relationship for 7 years. But there is also a possibility that he doesn’t know it himself. It takes courage, time and acceptance to discover oneself and he looked like he doesn’t understand what spectrum he belongs to.
I cannot judge him because he was never rude or an asshole towards Yoomin. And we can’t blame him either. There are a lot of nuances when it comes to romance and how people view it. All of us has different ways of how we want to be loved. Yoomin’s feelings are completely valid and so does he.
But—it’s a little too late.
PS. Don’t let my man Hyeondo bury himself with anxiety again. ╥﹏╥