right? he was definitely in the wrong for that and it just makes everyone else feel pity for her. and when it flashes back to the past, he says he still has sexual desires, but did he not have those sexual desires for yoomin? or was is just romantic feelings he didnt have because he said he also felt no attraction to her at all...
Even if you are aro, wouldn’t you still feel devastated that someone who you considered a close precious friend or a chosen partner decided to not be in your life anymore? Like, it was unusual of him not to really care right?
he fr acted like he didnt care so that was confusing as hell to me. if she was that important to him, he would have reached out sooner and asked what he could do it fix it rather than just letting it be. also his friends assumed she would always love him so i think in his mind, he got too comfortable thinking yoomin would come running back smh
As someone who deeply relates to not even once feeling those butterflies that people gush about, I still think that he went about it in a wrong way. I always wondered, what if I never find the person who lights that 'spark'? And the option of lying to somebody about my true feelings in order to chase that illusion feels wrong to me. He should've been honest with her from the start. He should have given her the option to CHOOSE thisrelationship. And she would have all the rights not to.