Hi

My own favorite crayon April 1, 2025 4:10 pm

If may I ask,

Is it wrong of me to get mad or out of mood if my boyfriend is used to not messaging me at all unless I say so?

Before we got together, we always message each other, like no days have passed that I did not get a message from him. Now that we are together, little by little he gets used to not messaging me. Like he could go on the whole day without messaging me even the tiniest update of where he is, or what he is doing.

Ps. I am not a nagging or paranoid GF. I just want him to spare like a minute or two to tell me what he is doing or where he is.

Ps. We talked about this and he said he will change. But no changes at all

Responses
    DOKJA'SCVMSUCKER April 1, 2025 4:18 pm

    What the heck was that?
    A total watermelon girlie.
    In MY opinion, I think he was just doing all those things in the past like texting you everyday, every minute or what because y'all aren't even together yet, having a thrill there is but now
    that you guys are together, that thrill is slowly fading away.
    Pretty much sure he did that to get you, girl. Because if that's his real self, he'd be doing those things until now!

    And to the point that you guys have talked about it already and there's still no changes,girl yk it.
    You don't wanna end up like those girls, in TikTok novels that doesn't have part two. Yea?

    DOKJA'SCVMSUCKER April 1, 2025 4:20 pm

    I said so many things but I didn't answer your question.
    You have the rights to get mad at that kind of a situation, nobody can control YOUR emotion other than you yourself.

    He might give you the assurance before you guys got together but what happened to that assurance after?

    leeahl April 1, 2025 4:24 pm

    i think it’s perfectly normal for you to get mad if it’s smtg that you care about and that you asked for, but as someone who doesn’t like to text i also understand that it is sometimes hard to get used to texting someone so often.
    well, i don’t have any advice bcuz they never changed when i asked either, just wanted you to know that it is normal and maybe talk to him more about it and explain why it’s important to you
    hopefully it will get better soon

    Xer April 1, 2025 4:49 pm

    Love bombing bae

    Xer April 1, 2025 4:51 pm
    Love bombing bae Xer

    Lemme be straight with you, he was infatuated and is now getting tired of you (take this as a worst case scenario situation)

    tzking April 1, 2025 4:58 pm

    Speaking from experience, They never change. And he'll be taking you for granted more and more until he loses you.

    Maido April 1, 2025 5:06 pm

    Hun you have every right