
he was married for 2-3 years before they're reunion, during which eunsan's father died. he wasn't married during the time they played hockey together in highschool or when ian went to play in canada, ian is 29 (or 28), he had at least 10 years to confess and by the "following him around like a puppy" comment from eunsan's reporter friends, he's been in love or infatuated for all those 10 years. he had all the time on the world, but he let his love fester into an ugly jealous and obsessive mess with no consideration for eunsan. the first bit of consideration he showed after being an annoying jerk since the funeral was when eunsan had an anxiety attack. it took an anxiety attack for him to think about his behavior.
I'm sorry but i hate pathetic losers who are so bitter about their unrequited crush that they never confessed that they take it out on their crush for not being a mind reader and expects them to magically get it, fall in love and apologize for never having noticed their feelings all while being one of the reasons they're suffering. idk why there's so many "romances" like this, but it ain't cute