Give up ur love she says, as all of this started because she loved a man.

I mean to be fair not her fault but that mf who caused her the pain and suffer.

True, but she also got warned by everyone around her to not trust him. And also the curse was all her doing

The victim blaming is crazy she loved that man and believed he loved her too. When she found out the person she loved killed her child and ppl she loved she would obv go insane. The curse thing is understandable but the one who started this was the dude who couldn't communicate his feelings.

I am not sure what I said implied victim blaming but that wasn't my intention. I never said anything about it being all her fault, obviously the guy manipulated her, but I think u jumped the too far considering I have only written 2 sentences in which I never said anything about disliking much less hate anyone. My first comment was just my thoughts, which weren't meant to be taken too deeply. Just saying that if anyone could stop loving someone at choice, things all around the world would have been much easier

Ooo this is gonna be long but even if u didn’t intend to victim-blame, the way you phrased it can still come across that way.

"all of this started because she loved a man" makes it seem like her love was the cause of everything, when in reality, the blame should be on the man who manipulated her and the circumstances that led to the curse. Love itself isn’t a mistake, and that wording makes it sound like her suffering is a direct consequence of her feelings rather than the result of betrayal, manipulation, or unfortunate circumstances. This is like telling someone who got scammed, "Well, it's because you trusted them," instead of blaming the scammer. The issue isn't that she loved someone, it’s what the man did and how the situation unfolded.

Another example is when you wrote, "she also got warned by everyone around her to not trust him" This implies that since she was warned, she should have known better, and whatever happened was her responsibility. This is a classic example of victim-blaming because it assumes that ignoring warnings means someone deserves the consequences. People don’t always listen to warnings for various reasons such as hope, love, emotional manipulation, or simply not believing the worst in someone. Holding that against them oversimplifies the situation and ignores the complexities of human emotions and trust. Imagine telling someone who stayed in an abusive relationship despite warnings, "Well, you were told not to trust them." That dismisses the abuser's actions and places unnecessary blame on the victim for being hopeful or manipulated.

It’s not that I think you outright blamed her, but statements like these (even unintentionally) can still reinforce the idea that she brought this on herself rather than acknowledging the manipulation.I get that your comment wasn’t meant to be that deep, but u def were victim blaming.

Ok i get where u are coming from and honestly I don't care much about the past of the story to blame her or even think about her or the guy much but I'll choose my words better in the future. But honestly, you need to choose your words better too.