it depends on the dom, the sub, and the type of play ur doing. i've done pickup play at a couple of events and since it was with new ppl i'd never played with before, the negotiated scenes didn't involve any genital touching at all for either party. no orgasms were had but everyone left happy + satisfied, so yeah the psychological excitement and pleasure of dominance/submission and sadism/masochism was the point of those encounters. sometimes there's a power aspect, like the dom feels like it reinforces their control of the scene if they don't get off as part of the scene. there's also ppl who identify as "pleasure doms," where the focus is usually on multiple orgasms for the sub and the dom's pleasure is again mostly psychological, except for penetrative sex at the end. and in the lesbian world there's ppl who identify as "stone tops," they usually like to give touch/pleasure to their bottoms but don't enjoy being touched back.
lots of different reasons why a top/dom would give touch but not receive touch, or would give orgasms but not receive orgasms!
oh I see! I never thought I'd get an answer, its so nice to know. thanks (≧∀≦)
wow I don't expect it to be this good, from the cover I thought it's your usual pornhwa with little to no plot lol. anw, I never watch or did bdsm irl (not really my preference but I like reading bdsm theme manhwa) but one thing I notice is they never show us the doms get off during play (beside penetrative sex obviously), unlike the subs. are they really don't get off? is it just that excitement feeling of domination? or are they just not showing it?