Tbh in the novel I didn't find him that pushy. He was full of himself but he wasn't a complete dick to Seowon, he was just desperate to see him.
Do you have a link for the novel?
What do you mean he is not scum? He trash talks omegas as if Seowon is not an omega? If he's a decent human being, he would not speak I'll of his secondary gender no matter what his reason is. Plus, he forces his way even though he's told NO many times. He didn't even listen to the seme's mother, THE MOTHER. He's a bastard and if I were the uke, no matter how much I have liked him since we were young, I would never want to be with him again. It's not like he's the only man around. The seme is NOT CUTE AT ALL. This kind of plot is not cute.
ML is kinda pushy, arrogant, intruding, self centered, narcissistic but props to him that he isn't human scum and have the bare decency of respecting MC's wishes. (And isn't a rapist, kidnapper lol)
It's like he pushes around to find MC's boundary to find the limit and doesn't cross it once he hits it. Like yeah, what he is doing kinda push a lot of boundaries, but when MC pushes back, ML doesn't push it further and retreats. He just have an extreme way of doing that.
It's somehow kinda cute he doesn't realise he's in love. Like he just wants huggies and kisses and is throwing a tantrum because he cant get any. Upset that MC could like someone else. Etc.
But also kinda irking that "he's a dOminAnT aLpHa so he CANT be in love with MC " narcissistic much? I hate that he thinks cuz he's so much better than MC, he can't like MC. Urg.