Contains spoilers if you’re not caught up reading the uploaded chapters yet: - - - - - - - - Ngl it’s annoying that people throw the word toxic and red flag onto anything they remotely dislike. It’s funny cause I’ve seen several stories where it’s the bottom/MC who has a traumatic backstory, is abused, isn’t mentally okay, and tends to be really dependent on the first person to show them kindness- but everyone always defends them no matter what. But have a top/ML be the one to have such issues, people’s first thing to do is blame him for everything, call him a red flag, etc.
They were teenagers both young and immature. It makes sense why doha couldn’t handle it and everyone agrees that they understand why he left. However they can’t understand the other teen who’s been abused and became dependent on the person who showed him kindness+affection. No consideration for bad mental health, and just straight up calling him insane. I’d say nothing he did are considered red flags except for the very last part where he intentionally let himself get beat by his father. But that also falls into the category of self-harm once a person believes there’s no other hope left. - Anyways they’re grown now and matured more. Though siwoon clearly still struggles mentally. Even in current time, it’s not a red flag to be upset at someone who left you. Naturally a bunch of people, no matter the misunderstanding, if they’re hurt by someone they cared for and that person appears in their life again, wanting to be together with them again after they were the one to leave you first, who wouldn’t be upset??? I don’t blame doha since he was just a teen. But let’s not forget that it was doha who approached and chased after siwoon even after siwoon told him to go away, found out his abuse, knew he got dependent on him, and then chose to end things. It’s not just siwoon’s own fault alone. Chasing after someone who you can’t handle is never a good idea.
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Ngl it’s annoying that people throw the word toxic and red flag onto anything they remotely dislike. It’s funny cause I’ve seen several stories where it’s the bottom/MC who has a traumatic backstory, is abused, isn’t mentally okay, and tends to be really dependent on the first person to show them kindness- but everyone always defends them no matter what. But have a top/ML be the one to have such issues, people’s first thing to do is blame him for everything, call him a red flag, etc.
They were teenagers both young and immature. It makes sense why doha couldn’t handle it and everyone agrees that they understand why he left. However they can’t understand the other teen who’s been abused and became dependent on the person who showed him kindness+affection. No consideration for bad mental health, and just straight up calling him insane. I’d say nothing he did are considered red flags except for the very last part where he intentionally let himself get beat by his father. But that also falls into the category of self-harm once a person believes there’s no other hope left.
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Anyways they’re grown now and matured more. Though siwoon clearly still struggles mentally. Even in current time, it’s not a red flag to be upset at someone who left you. Naturally a bunch of people, no matter the misunderstanding, if they’re hurt by someone they cared for and that person appears in their life again, wanting to be together with them again after they were the one to leave you first, who wouldn’t be upset??? I don’t blame doha since he was just a teen. But let’s not forget that it was doha who approached and chased after siwoon even after siwoon told him to go away, found out his abuse, knew he got dependent on him, and then chose to end things. It’s not just siwoon’s own fault alone. Chasing after someone who you can’t handle is never a good idea.