hi! can someone pls help me understand <3

pineapple March 22, 2025 6:27 am

hi!! i wanna ask a question, i just finished reading this manhwa in one sitting and i really do want to say its funny, comedic and really good genuinely!!

but can someone help me understand why i dont think its light hearted at all??? im not sure why but reading it made me cry, and it was really hard for me to read some parts of it, what jinhyeong went through was so relatable i cried through all of it and its just, so sadd, im really trying to see this manhwa in a more positive note but all i could remember was the father being utter trash to jinhyeong, and well,,, uyun is just so patient to jinhyeong, its just im not so sure anymore, its not even the first time i see this kind of trope and yet why???? do i feel??? so anxious???

but it was such a good read!! i just genuinely dont understand what i feel after reading this manhwa

Responses
    Thighsucker March 22, 2025 12:32 pm

    You're right it's not light-hearted. I cried when reading it too because I'm literally the same as Jinhyeong, except gender. I'm just assuming things here but maybe since you find Jinhyeong relatable you're kind of projecting so you feel anxious that you're/he's not good enough to be worthy of someone like Uyun? I'd certainly feel that way about myself if I have someone like Uyun. Like he's so pure and forgiving and full of love and yet I used him and even assaulted him I'd literally just kms

    pineapple March 22, 2025 1:28 pm
    You're right it's not light-hearted. I cried when reading it too because I'm literally the same as Jinhyeong, except gender. I'm just assuming things here but maybe since you find Jinhyeong relatable you're kin... Thighsucker

    OMG!?!?!?! WTHHHH THNKSS WHAT YOU SAID ACTUALLY MAKES SENSE T^T i just didnt wanna say it because EVERYONE DESERVES TO BE HAPPYYY D: but with all the events with what jinhyeong has done, it actually left me weird and feeling all anxiouss, AND THE PROJECTING PART AS WELL!!! omg thank you for wording out whatever my brain couldnt, but well as long as they are happy i guess all i can say is i hope they'll be happy through the very end!! T__T

    also thank you for validating me into thinking its not lighthearted too!! but its such a good read and funny too thats why im left in the dust huhu, thanks again!

    Thighsucker March 22, 2025 3:30 pm
    OMG!?!?!?! WTHHHH THNKSS WHAT YOU SAID ACTUALLY MAKES SENSE T^T i just didnt wanna say it because EVERYONE DESERVES TO BE HAPPYYY D: but with all the events with what jinhyeong has done, it actually left me wei... pineapple

    Ikr the sudden change of tone really caught me off guard I thought this was going to be a wholesome everyday life comedy but it punched me in the face by kinda exposing my dark sides,,,

    But yeah it's fine as long as they're happy lol everyone makes mistakes especially when Jinhyeong wasn't in his right mind, doesn't excuse his actions but since Uyun forgave him what can I say. What bugs me a bit is that Jinhyeong hasn't really apologised properly, but he offered his ass to Uyun so I guess that settles it? In a way?

    Anyways np haha your questions helped me think about why I found this story relatable too