Why is there more stories of Femdoms being so mean to their subs. Can't even escape that t...

I don't think he needs any aftercare, but since the blood is gone I assume there was.

all subs need aftercare, but so do doms!! i dislike how this is showcased in smut because both sides needs affection afterwards when a play is done

He does need aftercare. Basics of bdsm. Especially if during play his physical health is impacted like for example the nosebleeds. You can get dizzy and stuff. He may be a sturdy man but he needs it. There's also the emotional side. Maybe further along the story we'll see the importance of it because it's not being practiced on ML.

Not all subs need aftercare tbh some people prefer not to/to be alone after a scene or play. But most do want it. And doms absolutely. Wouldn't want any of them to suffer a sub or dom drop. I hope that doesn't happen to the ML

Tbh you’ll be hard pressed to find a dom receiving aftercare in smut when even irl, some subs are confused on why a dom needs aftercare and would even go so far as to say it turns them off.

Which is so fucked up and I hate. Like are we not on the same Ave some doms commit CONSENSUAL acts of violence towards people they love/care for? Like that deserves aftercare oh my god reassure them it felt good and they did a good job. Some may feel guilty even though they shouldn't cause everything was planned and consented too and it was a pleasurable experience. Many x and y reasons why a Dom may need aftercare. Hate how taboo it can be sometimes in the community :(

well yea i was making a blanket generalization of course people have preferences but the basic consensus is subs should get aftercare and so should doms unless specific stated

i want to get where you’re coming from but it felt like nitpicking. it’s like if i criticized how not all doms absolutely need aftercare, what if some don’t? which is still true, but it’s not necessary to point out since we know people are different!!

exactly. but in not expecting accurate rep lmao, i just wanted to inform someone that aftercare for both sub/dom are the basics of bdsm dynamics

Yeah I got u, was more so replying to the other person, just adding an anecdote.

Exactlyy

Sorry I like bdsm, but forget most prefer aftercare. Honestly I don't think there is much aftercare needed, I'm sure it'll come later on in the story

Well obviously it's gonna be smut and not affectionate sub & Dom relationship ^_^

never said they had to showcase it accurately… all i stated was that i dislike it. smut will focus on smut obviously ? but its possible to have both accurate research and sex. i just tried to make conversation with you not argue but ok

i reached out since its a common misconception that subs/doms don’t need aftercare at all