
Omg that's so true!! It's the exact reason I don't read bdsm. Everyone I try to read a story labelled as bdsm whether straight or bl it's almost always non con shit!! I don't get it..Do people actually enjoy someone getting absued against their consent?!
The same thing with consent feels a thousand times better that the one without one!!
And a lot of people think that if the uke does things to the same without consent then it's ok...They also need to understand that uke or seme non con is a no no ( ̄へ ̄)

So real its usually dubious or rape. BDSM is not rape. It’s people consensually doing stuff and knowing the other person also cares abt their safety/comfort.
Sadistic Beauty (lesbian couple) was really cute tho! They consensually did BDSM plays/roleplay and it was great they had a good time while respecting each other’s boundaries There was also a yaoi one I saw that delved into BDSM aspects but i forgot the name XD still, the dom was rlly sweet and only did what sub was comfortable with

In the doghouse is also a good one, here’s a list https://www.mangago.zone/home/mangalist/757218/

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/kabukichou_bad_trip/
Here’s the yaoi I was talking abt. Check it out if you’ve got the time :)
I was feeling a little cute the other day and went through the bdsm tag for something to read and all I wanna say is people gotta stop mislabeling rape with bdsm because I hope yall bitches are aware bdsm has CONSENT. About 90% of the bdsm stories I went through were rape with torture. That is NOT bdsm. Just because the rapist thought I'd be nice to tie up the victim and slap the shit out his face does not equal bdsm. Don't be mistaken! Please, we need some literacy!