To be honest I really want to try bdsm too But I’m not sure if I’m a sub or a dom And...

i recommend u do it with a person you trust, bdsm is very fun but you do need to be careful with a couple things, the main one is communication and trust. like you said, it's hard to meet up with random people so i think it's better to try light non sexual plays with a friend who's into it too. you never really know yk maybe someone close to you wants to try it too. but yeah be careful and if you can't do it with anyone try some solo stuff to get acquainted with it.

Hiii I recommend first studying theory! And watching content about it. On YouTube there's a channel called Watt's the safe word both educational and entertainment content about some bdsm (mostly gay scene of it) and online there's plenty of videos and websites and blogs! For finding community try using FetLife (free app for bdsm) to find local people or workshops! The UI sucks but I'm sure you could find people to talk to (I found my mentor there! Completely educational relationships he's like a teacher, nothing sexual). As for figuring what you are don't worry about it, if someone ask just say you're undefined because you're new/inexperienced.

Also practicing by yourself. You can try impact play by yourself with paddles, floggers, etc. You can try blindfolding, gagging, bondage and sensory deprivation by yourself. Without having to risk meeting someone and being at their mercy. Never meet anyone you haven't talked to for a while and you have clear what you like and what they like. Not everyone does BDSM contracts but it's never bad to stay near traditional at first.

Awww guys thank You for replying i will try watching those channel soon

1 time it’s way back 2010
Me and my x bf tried something
He ask me to tie him up it the bed then i did tied him up then he ask me to hit him with a belt so i did

Then he ended up crying

omg was it good crying or bad crying?

He cried so much coz it hurt lmao

Definitely do it with someone you trust a lot. Maybe sometimes wait in a relationship? I’m just now doing that with my partner (as a Dom) and we’re experimenting. It’s really nice and sweet. Just remember that safe word!! (*´▽`*)