Exactly! Like don’t force your son to come out to you but also don’t gossip about your own son to his boyfriend behind your back either. Especially to the point that your own son feels lonely by both his family and his boyfriend. He hates confrontation and still he asked his boyfriend what’s going on. Doesn’t that tell you that he’s lonely and bothered?
It's a strange way to handle things. I know they want to protect him and everything but I don't think it's okay to talk about him and arrange everything with his boyfriend behind his back. Doesn't make sense to me.
Its okay not to ask your own child because you dont want him to worry or wanna give him a "chance" to come out by himself or "protect" him but its completely okay to talk behind his back, get his boyfriend to spill the beans & keeping stuff from him to a point you practically lying to his face?? Not cool at all