100% agree with you
I don't think they're making decisions for him. If they did, they would try to manipulate him one way or another. Instead, they figured it out but are letting him open up at his own pace. What, did you want his sister to confront him the moment she found out? What about hos mom?
maybe not confront him, but talk to your own son before a third party at least. And open up at his own pace my ass, how's he supposed to handle social situations if these guys keep coddling him? You're setting everything up without telling him anything, I would be mad as hell if someone did this to me
But you're not like this character. They're doing this based on his personality, idk why your putting yourself in this situation when you're not like the uke. Tbh I agree it should be done a different way but they know their kids and boyfriend
Regardless of personal feelings, there is a certain respect you give to other people as individuals who have a right to know about things related to them and make their own decisions. Doing everything behind his back like this is highly manipulative in a way that will make the uke increasingly dependent on those around him, especially the seme. This is in complete contrast to his sister's worries of him being innocent. How is he supposed to be independent if you treat him like a child?
Lol, they did manipulate him. How can you no see that?
How?
You really think talking behind his back with his boyfriend, keeping him in the dark and planning his own life FOR him isn't manipulation???? The gaslighting is strong with this one
Not people saying the family is in the right
Guys, he is a grown adult and they family is making decisions about HIS life behind his back.
That's just not okay. Please do try to relate. If someone made decisions behind your back about your life would you like that?