100% agree with you
I don't think they're making decisions for him. If they did, they would try to manipulate him one way or another. Instead, they figured it out but are letting him open up at his own pace. What, did you want his sister to confront him the moment she found out? What about hos mom?
maybe not confront him, but talk to your own son before a third party at least. And open up at his own pace my ass, how's he supposed to handle social situations if these guys keep coddling him? You're setting everything up without telling him anything, I would be mad as hell if someone did this to me
Not people saying the family is in the right
Guys, he is a grown adult and they family is making decisions about HIS life behind his back.
That's just not okay. Please do try to relate. If someone made decisions behind your back about your life would you like that?