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THIS. as if these people are "waiting for jy to come out" because they care. if they were, they would have kept their mouths shut and their curiousity away, let jy do what he want to do, and genuinely waited, but they basically already outed him by confronting his boyfriend. They're just treating him like a dumbass who doesnt deserve to have a say. And this whole secret meeting thing with ch, it IS them deciding for jy what is best for him. If they didnt approve of ch, would they have then forced jy to break up and basically outed him anyway?
Either way, the family and ch's decision to go behind jy's back is crossing a huge boundary.
I understand not wanting to out the MC, and letting him come to his own terms, but I do find it uncomfortable the way they went straight to the BF instead. They basically just demanded confirmation of the MC's sexuality by circumventing him. And whatever test the family put the ML through, I feel that the MC has the right to know since he's at the center of it. The MC is a grown man and the conflict centers around his sexuality and him taking this big next step in life(moving out).
While I get that this MC is supposed to be very 'baby' and thats how the ML and the family treat him, this is the first time this story has actually irritated me with how they dealt with him.