I don't understand. I thought Yiseon was relieved they'd broken up because he felt pressur...

wearethemisfits March 20, 2025 4:52 am

I don't understand. I thought Yiseon was relieved they'd broken up because he felt pressured to date Yumin. Even the getting back together stuff felt kinda forced. Shouldn't he be happy she's moving on?

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    Idris March 20, 2025 5:02 am

    Maybe it's a "now that I don't have her anymore I'm realizing how much I loved her" type situation. You're right tho it does feel a bit forced :/

    haru March 20, 2025 5:11 am

    I think he thinks of yumin like a toy. When he has her he's fine, doesn't really care about her and plays with her feelings. When someone else has her he feels protective/possessive. Super toxic

    wearethemisfits March 20, 2025 11:13 am

    Sigh. I was willing to see him as an ok guy who made some extremely hurtful decisions out of a sense of obligation to his sick dad but maybe he's just selfish and toxic

    Idris March 20, 2025 9:06 pm
    Sigh. I was willing to see him as an ok guy who made some extremely hurtful decisions out of a sense of obligation to his sick dad but maybe he's just selfish and toxic wearethemisfits

    Could be both, people aren't black and white.
    On one hand he's very indifferent to romance and therefore did not mind marrying her for his family and his dad's savior happiness, he enjoyed making the people important to him happy through something that he himself didn't feel a need for. But at the same time he enjoyed how Yumin made him feel, he was loved, cherished, taken care of emotionally. He would go on walks with someone who cared about him and who would match his pace. Which may be something he had never experienced being very popular with a lot of people viewing him as "the perfect guy" or woman wanting his full attention.
    Overall I dislike him but I wouldn't call him a red flag (at least not right now), a yellow flag tho

    wearethemisfits March 21, 2025 11:07 am
    Could be both, people aren't black and white.On one hand he's very indifferent to romance and therefore did not mind marrying her for his family and his dad's savior happiness, he enjoyed making the people impo... Idris

    I get what you're saying, and it's true we don't fully know his intentions yet, but if he is actively trying to get back with Yumin -- knowing that he has never reciprocated her romantic feelings -- then I won't be able to give him the benefit of the doubt anymore. He may have felt like he had no choice the first time but he doesn't have that excuse now

    Idris March 21, 2025 9:11 pm
    I get what you're saying, and it's true we don't fully know his intentions yet, but if he is actively trying to get back with Yumin -- knowing that he has never reciprocated her romantic feelings -- then I won'... wearethemisfits

    Yeah i'm not really interested in him tho so I just hope he won't be too much of a bother to the main couple (ik that's only wishful thinking tho)