Ok I relate to mc a lot, because if I date someone I am doing it with the intention of creating a bond, there are people like that, so it's not enough talking about your day and bland conversations, it'sjust not enough for me, I want to know the person for real, but when you don't see the same effort in the other person there are 2 options: 1. this person is superficial and i'm not interested in someone like that, 2. This person is not interested in me enough to open themselves, so let's move on. I had a similar experience (no sex involved) and i got so frustrated that i told them openly if they were just plain stupid or what, bc after 3 months there was no effort in our conversations, only how was your day, what did you do, what did you eat. I didn't know anything about this person, when I asked about past relationships "why do you want to know, it's the past, now i'm with you"
Ok I relate to mc a lot, because if I date someone I am doing it with the intention of creating a bond, there are people like that, so it's not enough talking about your day and bland conversations, it'sjust not enough for me, I want to know the person for real, but when you don't see the same effort in the other person there are 2 options: 1. this person is superficial and i'm not interested in someone like that, 2. This person is not interested in me enough to open themselves, so let's move on.
I had a similar experience (no sex involved) and i got so frustrated that i told them openly if they were just plain stupid or what, bc after 3 months there was no effort in our conversations, only how was your day, what did you do, what did you eat. I didn't know anything about this person, when I asked about past relationships "why do you want to know, it's the past, now i'm with you"