Skipping all the other nonsense you said, “And they way he spied on his dad having sex with his mistress??? CREEP” Did you somehow miss the fact that he was a literal CHILD? The real creep was his father for even putting him in that situation and exposing him to sex at such a young age. Not to mention, having him in adult spaces with adult women regularly when they should be doing normal father-son activities.
wtf? Do you mean to tell me, that watching his dad getting it on with some god damn strange woman, and getting excited(?) all the while CONTINUE to spy on them, is NOT CREEPY? His dad is at fault too, who said he wasn't? Was it because you watch too many yaoi that you kinda forget this is just weird and abnormal?
And y'know what, I just hated the seme that much to trash him like this. And it's not like I'm unable to handle this sort of disturbing troupes either. I just hated the seme, the way he just blamed it all on women but the real problem was clear as day, that he was the toxic, creepy guy who can't freaking admit that he was at fault for not respecting boundaries. So yeah, there you go.
See this is the reason why so many manga readers got a problem with girls and women in yaoi, because they legit use women as a trigger for the main couple romance, in the worst way possible :'>
And let's set aside how they portray women here a minute, since ok you can argue that the author just happens to have females as side characters to help the main couple process their feelings,bla bla bla... The main couples' core problems have not been solved at all, as if there's a whole other season for this manga.
The seme is still an obsessive creep who has some distancing issue and can't handle his lover having their own personal life. Bruh keeps switching lovers from left to right to find his one true love when the real problem was him. And wdym you date someone when you don't actually love them??? what is this trashhhhhhh logic?? And they way he spied on his dad having sex with his mistress??? CREEP
And the uke story was a bit better, I guess :'> Mommy issues with a broken heart, hung out with a grown women and got groomed into thinking they were in a serious relationship. Not really a fan how he treated women like trash after this, same goes for the seme.
Overall, this is such a wrong way of writing a plot :'> I mean what did I expect from the name anyway :'> Stop using women as triggers for the main leads like this please ╮(￣▽￣)╭