As an aroace

Anneke_yep March 17, 2025 9:53 pm

As an aroace so many scenes here made me want to crawl out of my skin. The plot seems interesting tho. Its just a me problem. You wouldn’t think im an aroace that reads smut LMAO

Responses
    Hira March 18, 2025 9:36 am

    What do u mean by crawling out of yr skin?

    P.S it's fine if a aroace wants to read smut. Everyone is curious what a certain things like tht thy not similar too.

    Anneke_yep March 18, 2025 8:36 pm
    What do u mean by crawling out of yr skin? P.S it's fine if a aroace wants to read smut. Everyone is curious what a certain things like tht thy not similar too. Hira

    Like that those scenes make me highly uncomfortable. Whenever there is like romantic or sexual tension (at least what I believe to be) it feels so weird and just off. I think I just can’t comprehend those being real things people experience. It kinda feels like reading a cringy erotic novel but less cringe and more the feeling of it as cringe if that makes sense.

    Hira March 18, 2025 9:01 pm
    Like that those scenes make me highly uncomfortable. Whenever there is like romantic or sexual tension (at least what I believe to be) it feels so weird and just off. I think I just can’t comprehend those bei... Anneke_yep

    To u wht would be a non cringy erotic novel or romantic novel/manga?

    Anneke_yep March 18, 2025 9:49 pm
    To u wht would be a non cringy erotic novel or romantic novel/manga? Hira

    Hmmm its hard to say but usually whatever doesn’t fall into the stereotype along the lines of a woman in a tight spot falling (usually extremely sexually at first) for a man that is a great cause of the distress but then there is no growth between their relationship in a nonsexual way. Like very superficial.

    Hira March 18, 2025 11:00 pm
    Hmmm its hard to say but usually whatever doesn’t fall into the stereotype along the lines of a woman in a tight spot falling (usually extremely sexually at first) for a man that is a great cause of the distr... Anneke_yep

    Hav u heard of untouchable?

    Hira March 18, 2025 11:00 pm
    Hmmm its hard to say but usually whatever doesn’t fall into the stereotype along the lines of a woman in a tight spot falling (usually extremely sexually at first) for a man that is a great cause of the distr... Anneke_yep

    Or positively yours?

    Anneke_yep March 19, 2025 12:48 am
    Or positively yours? Hira

    I have indeed heard of both but I can’t remember their premise at the moment.

    Hira March 19, 2025 9:52 pm
    I have indeed heard of both but I can’t remember their premise at the moment. Anneke_yep

    Ok I recommend both n match made in heaven by chance. Anyway what r yr feelings towards yaoi

    Anneke_yep March 20, 2025 5:14 pm
    Ok I recommend both n match made in heaven by chance. Anyway what r yr feelings towards yaoi Hira

    I prefer yaoi mostly because it doesn’t include a relationship with a woman in it. This is because i (as a woman both physically and mentally but maybe some dysphoria ) don’t want to see anyone that I could accidentally identify with in a relationship. Mostly because a lot of stories tend to focus on cliches that make a woman lesser for just being a woman. Its not that I won’t its just that I don’t prefer it. With yuri, that focuses too much on romance for me while also usually just not being in a genre I like.