thank you for sharing, im sorry you had to go through that. i went through something similar so i understand it and im glad you're doing better now. you're rly strong <3
Absolutely agree. I had a similar experience with a sub who demanded all of my attention and used his bad mental health and my "responsibility" as a dominant to make me feel like crap for wanting out. Took me years to trust myself topping again
Thank you! It was hard and I’m a lot pickier now. Don’t want to go though that again.
Hope you doing better too :3
Yes! I mean we have lives too. I’m dominant not a guardian.
Hope we all find the right sub for us
Oh the Dom was abused. That’s a cool change from most other stories. I can relate because I broke up with my bf because he begged me to play with him 24/7. But I didn’t want to control his whole life and manage and be burdened with all the responsibilities. At the end of the relationship I found BDSM disgusting and couldn’t even look at police handcuffs without thinking about him. I needed more than a year bevor I could love my sexuality again.