Ian’s mom is like every Asian or Arab mom, all of them just act like that for some reaso...

Luca_usk March 16, 2025 8:11 pm

Ian’s mom is like every Asian or Arab mom, all of them just act like that for some reason( ̄へ ̄)

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    specird March 16, 2025 10:30 pm

    girl don't generalize. contrary to the popular stereotype, 95% of moms i met aren't like the that at all

    noot noot March 16, 2025 10:36 pm

    I don’t think it’s for “some” reason! reputation and having “face” is something that’s common in Asian communities. I don’t wanna deep dive into it but it’s definitely a thing

    Luca_usk March 16, 2025 11:02 pm
    I don’t think it’s for “some” reason! reputation and having “face” is something that’s common in Asian communities. I don’t wanna deep dive into it but it’s definitely a thing noot noot

    Totally agree, as an Arab who survived a VERY arab mom, and have Asian friends i can literally know how hard it is to handle. Sometimes it feels like they are living ur life instead.

    zenchan~ March 17, 2025 3:32 am
    girl don't generalize. contrary to the popular stereotype, 95% of moms i met aren't like the that at all specird

    95% of moms u met? girl, it's bc u haven't lived with them

    specird March 17, 2025 4:09 am
    95% of moms u met? girl, it's bc u haven't lived with them zenchan~

    girl im asian

    zenchan~ March 17, 2025 10:16 am
    girl im asian specird

    girl i am too, and u know well that this is a stereotype that's true

    AsterryFlower March 17, 2025 9:59 pm

    For having lived with one, there is a difference between a mother that wants what’s best for you, and a delusional mom that wants what’s best for HERSELF. It’s a fine line, but it’s there. Ian’s mom is NOT like most arab or asian moms. Yes sometimes it can get toxic and the behavior can be mistaken, and of course, not every parents is perfect, but Ian’s mom is so desperate for attention that she made herself believe it was for Ian. She knows it isn’t, but she dug herself so deep into it that no amount of convincing can help her. Arabs and asian moms usually push you to greatness because they think you can’t see it or understand it yet, but they can, so sometimes they will disregard your feelings for it, but it’s rarely ever selfish. Ian’s mom is doing everything for purely selfish reasons, because her life improved greatly, and she wants it so much that she just made herself believe it was great for Ian too, just so she could get more of it.

    Luca_usk March 17, 2025 10:31 pm
    For having lived with one, there is a difference between a mother that wants what’s best for you, and a delusional mom that wants what’s best for HERSELF. It’s a fine line, but it’s there. Ian’s mom i... AsterryFlower

    U made a point there, i can definitely agree. Got no more to say honestly u said it all

    AsterryFlower March 17, 2025 10:33 pm
    U made a point there, i can definitely agree. Got no more to say honestly u said it all Luca_usk

    LMFAOO SHE JUST REALLY PISSES ME OFF SO I WENT ON A RANT

    Luca_usk March 17, 2025 10:36 pm
    LMFAOO SHE JUST REALLY PISSES ME OFF SO I WENT ON A RANT AsterryFlower

    Frrr, like, whenever i see her i just know im gonna get mad