NON TOXIC, NON MALE GAZE, SCHOOL LIFE, GOOD ART STYLE GL/YURI?

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/run_away_with_me_girl/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/mom_i_m_gay/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/composing_spring_in_this_room_where_cherry_blossoms_bloom/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/her_shimcheong/

Then these are perfect for you to start off with

"Mom I'm gay" sounds like me coming out to my mom, I'm reading that first.

THANK YOUUUUU(づ￣ ³￣)づ

Just saying, but not all male writers of yuri are bad, for example Otherside Picnic, The Magical Revolution of the Reincarnated Princess and the Genius Young Lady, Adachi to Shimamura, Sasameki Koto and The Two of Them Are Pretty Much Like This were all written by men and they're actually good.

Anyway, here are some recommendations:
School life (high school and college settings):
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/futsuu_no_koitte_nani/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/love_gives_me_superpowers/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/gal_oshi_jk_wa_gal_ni_naritai/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/yuri_yuri_panic/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/kao_dake_yoi_classmate_ga_yatara_to_guigui_kuru_yuri_no_hanashi/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/project_yuriforming/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/yearning_for_a_night_full_of_you/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/tsumugi_chan_wants_to_make_seto_san_laugh/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/furetai_wa_koi_no_hajimari/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/that_time_i_was_blackmailed_by_the_class_s_green_tea_bitch/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/kimi_ga_hoeru_tame_no_uta_wo/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/foxes_always_lie/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/dark_mermaid/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/the_two_sides_of_seiyuu_radio/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/mietemasu_yo_aizawa_san/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/shy_na_ano_ko_ni_natsukaretai/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/drunken_my_boss/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/koi_ni_koi_suru_koibito_kankei/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/sugar_meets_girl/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/sukeban_to_tenkousei_ga_kudaranai_asobi_o_suru_dake_no_hanashi/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/koi_yori_aoku_oneshot/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/ano_koro_no_aoi_hoshi/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/my_angel_childhood_friend_was_a_gal_when_we_met_again/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/her_mountain_her_ocean/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/hana_ni_arashi_kovachi_luka/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/our_yuri_started_with_me_getting_rejected_in_a_dream/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/the_moon_on_a_rainy_night/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/anemone_is_in_heat/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/odoriba_ni_sukaato_ga_naru/

Romance with adults:
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/tsumetakute_yawaraka/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/love_my_boss_wife/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/pulse_ratana_satis/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/please_pick_my_love_too/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/watashi_to_kanojo_no_kawaii_koi_no_hajime_kata/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/threads_of_me_and_you/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/teiji_ni_agaretara/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/today_we_continue_our_lives_together_under_the_same_roof/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/wicked_spot/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/private_photos/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/summer_trend/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/oni_ure_idol_ga_kyou_mo_watashi_wo_oshitekuru/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/there_are_always_teachers_who_want_to_ask_out_parents_unofficial/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/koharu_to_minato_watashi_no_partner_wa_onna_no_ko/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/akumade_amai_watashi_no_kanojo/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/sherbet_above_the_sea_of_fog/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/crescent_moon_and_doughnuts/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/onna_tomodachi_to_kekkon_shitemita/

Angst:
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/tower_of_campanella/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/kono_koi_wa_hoshi_ni_wa_negawanai/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/fall/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/love_bullet_1/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/kimi_ga_shinu_made_koi_wo_shitai/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/my_blue_garnet/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/a_monster_wants_to_eat_me/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/throw_away_the_suit_together/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/kimi_to_tsuzuru_utakata/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/oniisama_e/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/shiroi_heya_no_futari/ (one-shot)

And finally, here are some female GL writers: Morinaga Milk/Miruko, Inui Ayu, Ratana Satis, Viva & Julys, Minori Chigusa, Kashikaze, Arata Iri, Tamasaki Tama, Morishima Akiko, Takeshima Eku, Shimura Takako, Takemiya Jin, Itsuki Kuro, Sakuragi Ren, Inori, Nakatani Nio, Sakuya Amano, Hijiki, Ugatsu Matsuki etc. Search their names up on mangago and their works should pop up!

WOW THIS IS CRAZY, THANKS FOR ALL THE RECS I APPRECIATE IT!