I was expecting something like "I love Lyle so much that I want to marry him, unlike i did...

Nightingale March 16, 2025 12:06 pm

I was expecting something like "I love Lyle so much that I want to marry him, unlike i did with you" type conversation, not the "if you didn't cheat on me back then, i would've accepted you now" type. I can't believe Lyle thinks he is not enough, if someone is not enough, it's Ash.

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    zabong March 16, 2025 12:13 pm

    but that is just how relationships are sometimes? You are allowed to wholeheartedly love someone just like ash did and that bond is gone so he moved on in life. You can’t just magically erase your past because it’s still part of you

    Rin March 16, 2025 12:25 pm
    but that is just how relationships are sometimes? You are allowed to wholeheartedly love someone just like ash did and that bond is gone so he moved on in life. You can’t just magically erase your past becaus... zabong

    Exactly

    Nightingale March 16, 2025 12:41 pm
    but that is just how relationships are sometimes? You are allowed to wholeheartedly love someone just like ash did and that bond is gone so he moved on in life. You can’t just magically erase your past becaus... zabong

    I don't have any objections to that, but it sort of gave me "you cheated on me so i got into a relationship with Lyle" vibe, honestly. The way he expressed was not reassuring at all. Except for that, it's not like he can't have any ex lovers. That's very normal

    zabong March 16, 2025 1:09 pm
    I don't have any objections to that, but it sort of gave me "you cheated on me so i got into a relationship with Lyle" vibe, honestly. The way he expressed was not reassuring at all. Except for that, it's not l... Nightingale

    honestly maybe from the perspective as someone who was cheated on like that’s all u can say to your ex sometimes . Like bro u deadass cheated on me like obviously i moved on in life , ygm?

    Stormborn March 16, 2025 3:16 pm
    I don't have any objections to that, but it sort of gave me "you cheated on me so i got into a relationship with Lyle" vibe, honestly. The way he expressed was not reassuring at all. Except for that, it's not l... Nightingale

    ash had a life before lyle omg he got cheated on my someone he liked so they broke up. now that same person who did him wrong wants him back now that hes happy. ash told him to fuck off as he should. he should do the same to lyle if lyle does that to him.

    Nightingale March 16, 2025 11:20 pm
    ash had a life before lyle omg he got cheated on my someone he liked so they broke up. now that same person who did him wrong wants him back now that hes happy. ash told him to fuck off as he should. he should ... Stormborn

    Y'all don't even get my point and act like i'm justifying cheating wtf? Ash isn't considerate enough about how Lyle feels, he just focuses on himself that's all i meant and Lyle doesn't deserve it since he already is a sensitive person and has no self confidence. Ash could've handled this whole situation much better. Fuck Hazel he's a cheater no one's giving a fuck about him

    Stormborn March 17, 2025 2:59 am
    Y'all don't even get my point and act like i'm justifying cheating wtf? Ash isn't considerate enough about how Lyle feels, he just focuses on himself that's all i meant and Lyle doesn't deserve it since he alre... Nightingale

    ash had a past before lyle. he left hazel BEFORE he met lyle and even if he and lyle weren’t together he wouldnt be back with hazel which is why he tells him to get lost. hazel lied and cheated which are good reasons to break up and not get back with someone. it has nothing to do with lyle. hes not with lyle because he doesnt love hazel anymore because that means that lyle was a rebound he used to get over haze. ash was already over hazel. theres nothing to be insecure about bc its been over

    Nightingale March 17, 2025 8:37 am
    ash had a past before lyle. he left hazel BEFORE he met lyle and even if he and lyle weren’t together he wouldnt be back with hazel which is why he tells him to get lost. hazel lied and cheated which are good... Stormborn

    Yeah Lyle had a past before Ash too but he always put Ash first. That's why i think there is an imbalance in their relationship. Ash might've not meant that he's not with Lyle because he doesn't love Hazel anymore but that's exactly how it seemed to me. That's what i was saying in my comment. Idc as long as they're cool but i never really completely liked Ash.