I don't think Sunbae is a green flag buuuut one thing I don't get about mangas is why Gunjoon expects Sunbae to completely change once they start "dating". Sunbae has consistently been like this. Gunjoon is the one who actually hasn't shown consistency, starting out from randomly judging and hating on Sunbae to then falling head over heels. This is like the same logic of "if we have kids our relationship will get better". NO IT WON'T??? Just because the status of your relationship changes doesn't mean the individual will magically become a different person???
Do I endorse Sunbae behaviour? Fuck no. But Gunjoon ain't right either.
I don't think Sunbae is a green flag buuuut one thing I don't get about mangas is why Gunjoon expects Sunbae to completely change once they start "dating".
Sunbae has consistently been like this. Gunjoon is the one who actually hasn't shown consistency, starting out from randomly judging and hating on Sunbae to then falling head over heels.
This is like the same logic of "if we have kids our relationship will get better". NO IT WON'T??? Just because the status of your relationship changes doesn't mean the individual will magically become a different person???
Do I endorse Sunbae behaviour? Fuck no. But Gunjoon ain't right either.