okay... I kind of get where he's coming from. Some people take dating very seriously, so hearing "I date for fun" can actually be really hurtful. I think they're just not being clear about their emotional needs. It's frustrating but some people do need to be told to say I love you more or do certain things to make the other feel more reassured. They unfortunately might just not be used to doing things that are a requirement for you to feel secure. Either they can work on it together or they really just aren't compatible love language wise and should just break up lol
okay... I kind of get where he's coming from. Some people take dating very seriously, so hearing "I date for fun" can actually be really hurtful. I think they're just not being clear about their emotional needs. It's frustrating but some people do need to be told to say I love you more or do certain things to make the other feel more reassured. They unfortunately might just not be used to doing things that are a requirement for you to feel secure. Either they can work on it together or they really just aren't compatible love language wise and should just break up lol