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the way you just ramble and ramble and make up entire narratives in your head just bc people are telling you your take is flawed is so weird.
u have some valid points, which are again ur opinions, but ur reasoning and the way u connect these is seriously biased and comes from a negative pov.
and the fact that u keep saying consent isn’t black and white while giving perfectly good examples of black and white situations is throwing me off. it’s either consensual or not what is confusing you?
Dan has severe mental health issues. People are clearly are wild to conclude he has cancer.
Dan looks like he has insomnia which can lead to sleepwalking. People who suffer from sleeping disorders can have stress and depression. We know Dan has both. Dan is suffering from abandonment issues since he was a child. How is it that people do not treat depression as a life threatening disease is beyond me. We know Dan has suicidal tendencies since he’s prone to walk into the ocean and ending all his pain.
His depression comes from both JK and his grandma. His quality of life is in the shitter. Iam surprise he’s holding on this long without offing himself. Dans life was in the crapper before he met JK. I mean he was almost sexually assaulted by a disgusting POS boss. He couldn’t find a job with his skills. He was living in a shithole. Loan sharks were on his ass. He had the stress of paying grandma’s hospital bills.
People who think JK is the worst forget the other POS in his life. Dan’s life was no cakewalks. People need to stop waxing poetically about Dan as if he’s had it good before he met JK. JK is a bad egg but in some respect, he’s made Dan’s life better. He didn’t have the stress of not being able to pay grandma’s bills. He didn’t have to live in a shithole. He didn’t have to deal with loan sharks on his ass all the time. He had a respectable career taking care of JK. If sex was the trade off. It was Dan who consented to be in this kind of situationship. There is a reason why he was disgusted with the boss sexually assaulting him and why he isn’t with JK. The sex situationship might not be good for Dan but it’s a trade off. Believe it or not this is how most relationships and marriages are. This whole idea of having the perfect boyfriend who never f*cks up is some imaginary Disneyfied fairly tail that doesn’t exist in Real life.