
Yeah weird, but I've arguably seen weirder people irl so at this point I just hope he becomes a supportive friend. Nothing wrong with clearing the air if it's because he intends to be a friend to them in the future, but god he couldve at least led with "sorry I couldnt help myself and ask but dont worry I wont say anything to people and I'd like us to get along without there always being an elephant in the room" OR SOMETHING.

oh! yeah. i'm not saying i don't believe someone would do this, because ppl can be very invasive and sometimes in an oblivious way but i just couldn't...like we hardly know each other even with someone i'm friends with???
like my sister had a new friend that i didn't know from where??? 'cause it wasn't from work, it wasn't from the gym, it wasn't from college or a friend of a friend. and i literally did not ask her....for like a year. 'cause it wasn't any of my business. but then she became a friend too....and only after a while did i finally ask askdjhsdfkj
but yeah if he wanted to clear the air?? ask the person you actually work with, in a sensible manner. and even that...it's like you hardly know them. why does it matter? keep your mouth shut asjkdsjdhjg i get being curious, but someone's privacy and safety is so much more important. idk...again weirdo behavior lol
but why would you go over to someone and ask them if they're dating someone, especially if they're the same gender? like y'all aren't friends. you clocked it, keep it to yourself now. he didn't even ask the person closest to him, which would be yamashita his actual coworker. weirdo behavior.