ifykwim

i like how she recognized that ml’s way of loving seems excessive, to the point that it is at the expense of his self. it honestly feels like he defines his own existence through the eyes of the person he loves. he’s so full of love, he didn’t left some for himself. i hope their relationship can grow into something that encourages their personal growth, and not in a way that it tolerates it :)) I’m glad the author addressed ml’s lack of self consideration or self love, albeit indirectly