why r people criticizing others for sending condolences? yeah its an illegal site but that...

why r people criticizing others for sending condolences? yeah its an illegal site but that doesnt mean we cant still be respectful. like ofc the author wont read them and yeah its better to send sympathy on actual social media, but its just the thought behind them. plus it seems like a super serious situation, the note was posted so ofc people r gonna respond and react to it anyways ?? i dunno, telling people to hush just feels off to me