Reading this made me really sad, and I just couldn't scroll past without commenting... please don't give up! It is just my own personal belief that you should NEVER EVER EVER sacrifice your own happiness to please others... People who really love you will want you to be happy even if they don't understand. Don't let your family convince you to live a miserable and unhappy life, please... I say this as one WLW to another, do what makes you happy!! You will live to regret it if you don't, I promise you. Even if it is Hard, you will be glad you followed your heart in the end. If your family can only be peaceful due to your choice to be miserable, maybe your family shouldn't be at peace. They should care for you more than that. I hope these words
can get through to you, but even if they can't, whatever choice you make, I hope you're happy in the end
Thank you, sweetheart you’re so incredibly kind. I suppose I’m learning nowadays to prioritise my own happiness regardless of what that means for my family and hell, you might be right. Thank you again you have no idea how much this means to me
It's scary af but once you accepted that it's okay to live the way you want regardless of what people around you thinks, it would be much easier to breathe. Goodluck OP I hope you find your happiness
Never give up on yourself, try to surround yourself with like-minded people that will cherish you... But live safe and quietly if you live in an unsafe environment that can punish your love.
I suppose I’m just here to rant. There is so much responsibility I bear being apart of the family I’m in therefore I’ve always had to put my family’s wants over my own. Even though I will only ever like girls I might even have to give that up and marry a guy anyway to maintain my family’s peace. I’ve made my peace with it but reading Here u Are makes my chest ache when I see what could’ve been my life had my parents not been the people they are/my family the people they are. I love my family. As the eldest daughter there’s nothing I wouldn’t do for them. Even if that means sacrificing my individual happiness I suppose. I hope one day my sacrifices will be able to pave the way for someone else’s future happiness. I love this manwha so much regardless of all the bitter feelings I have when I read it too. ^_^