It’s not even misunderstandings. It’s lies being revealed after being hidden for so long and it’s ash not setting clear distinct boundaries. I know he didn’t start this but if he were previously bonded, that’s something to disclose. Same way he would have disclosed a child from a previous relationship, he needs to disclose that he literally tied his life to someone else’s. Lyle has every right to feel and react the way he is.
yeah ash needs to get his shit together,,, honestly he should have done something (told lyle what actually happened) when their friends were going around gossiping about his relationship with his ex. so i get why lyle feels that way, anyone else in his situation would feel that way too
He didnt disclose it because it never happened yall do to much
The contents of the story so far disagree with you.
No ur just slow. Lyle overheard people gossiping and they said “werent they bonded” but they just HEARD that they were bonded, and lyle heard them gossip about it. So i repeat he didnt disclose it because it didnt happen it was a fake rumour why would he need to tell lyle about something that aint happen? Lets think
i think the main problem is that they're not even communicating properly,,, like hes talking about his feelings or hearing out what actually happened
First of all, drop the attitude. No one was rude to you so stop acting like a toddler throwing a tantrum because things aren’t going your way. Second of all, the story so far is leading us and lyle to believe that ash failed to disclose that he had a mate bond. That’s undisputed and if you want to dispute that, take that up with the author. Third of all, all rumours have a place of origin. Everywhere you see smoke, there’s a fire. Even if he wasn’t mated to the person, he was close enough to said person that other people thought that he was. That’s still something to discuss to the man you invite to live in your home with you and share each and every morning and night with. And finally, before you even think to bring up how unreliable gossip is, let me just say that gossip has kept people (more specifically housewives) alive and safe for centuries at the very least and will continue to do so. It has helped people see warning signs before something tragic happens. Yes, no one should base their entire perception of a person based on gossip and rumours but ash is no saint and his previous attitude towards Lyle was nothing less than cruel and wrong. Feeling upset that you don’t know the man who invited you to join him in his home and feeling upset that your partner failed to disclose such a huge life event is normal behaviour. Mated bond or not, Lyle is perfectly within his rights to be upset and need space to process. In fact, marriage counsellors also advise space when one partner is struggling to process information about the other partner because you can make up lost time but you can never take back words and actions said and done.
And cause I’m petty, I’ll quote you. “Let’s think”
No one reading all that
what is with this misunderstanding after misunderstanding