Well, I guess it’s because readers are mostly straight.

You said you understood yet here you are making homophobic comment like this

Oh glad someone said something cause I was about to go ham #－.－)

You should've kept that shit ass comment to yourself. Girl you tmdid not prove anything. Anyway STAN IVE AND KEP1ER

I’m a gay guy, so my comment was from the real life experience :)

If you ever used tinder or grindr, you would know how many guys are married and asking for discretion. They choose the “easy” way out with their surroundings, which in the long term eats them up inside if they have a consciousness.

Yes, here you get the uke’s POV so you can sympathize with him. But in reality it’s more like what the ML is stating. They call you for a hookup, which they present as a date.. and then just ghost you as they have a family or whatever.

But ok, I guess now being traumatized gay is homophobic as explained by hetero people. Shame on me…

I'm not hetero :))
And fym by easy way out?? Instead of blaming the society that put pressure on closeted queers, you instead blamed the closeted queers who were forced to hide their identity their whole life. I live in a country where the majority are homophobic, and I can see that MY community, be it mlm or wlw were forced into marriage they didn't even want by their family. So your comment is really ignorant

I don’t get why everyone’s jumping you, you’re right, people shouldn’t get into beard marriages with partners that think they’re being promised a lifetime of love and loyalty, literally no one’s stopping them from staying single and closeted, but choosing to marry as a cover isn’t innocent, it’s ruining someone else’s life for your own gain

Also the reply is a WILDLY different topic? Being forced to hide your identity does NOT include using someone as a beard without their knowledge, and does not include cheating on them,

“Forced into marriage by family” is an entirely different thing if you’re talking about actual forced arranged marriages where the kids have no autonomy to get out of it, then that’s forced arranged marriages you should be advocating against,

but if you just mean families nagging at you to get married soon but you still have the legal autonomy and freedom to provide for yourself financially and you still choose to give in to their nagging and pull an innocent person into a loveless marriage with you then you’re the villain there…

Since when did I say cheating is okay? Also do you live in Asian household? And religious one at that? You might as well don't have autonomy at all, never mind forced arranged marriage. Besides the op phrasing it, "stick with one", "continue homoing around", "easy way out", you don't have any issue with that?

I live in armenia, the first official Christian country, do you think it’s rainbows and parades over here?there’s no “you might as well” you either have choice or you don’t, if you can financially provide for yourself then not cutting off your family and submitting to their will is a choice you’re making
All op said is if you choose to marry straight and delude yourself into living a straight life then “stick with it” till the end instead of cheating on the spouse and playing with the feelings of queer partners you’re cheating with or at least marry someone that’s an informed and consenting to the situation of being a beard of a spouse,
and “easy” was in quotations , cause, you know, it’d be less effort to just stay unmarried except dumb people either don’t think things through and think it’s a somehow a long term sustainable plan to live a fake straight life, or go into it fully with the intention to secretly cheat
And with “homoing around’ I couldn’t care less how a queer person phrases that, the point stays the same

Yeah right, except there's a rule to criminalized same sex relationship here so it's really "don't have a choice". And also did you even get my point? I'm saying to blame the root cause to point fingers especially toward closeted queer. People's circumstances were also different, cutting off ties with abusive family is good and all but that's nearly impossible (you don't have to understand but don't even try to insert your "perspective" here). "staying unmarried" is easy you say? Not really, with the societal pressure, how many times do you think I've been going back and forth to get professional help? And again if ONLY queer people don't need to hide their identity and can marry or be together with their wish, there's really no need for "cover" relationship is there? That's my point