can someone help me find this yaoi?

I've been losing my mind trying to track it down and I'm starting to wonder if I just dreamed up the whole thing, but it's a story about a hairdresser (uke) who sends out his scissors to get sharpened and writes letters to the person who does it, and one day he has to take the scissors to the sharpening place in person, and realizes the one who's been working on his scissors is a really intimidating long-haired guy (seme), and he's super embarrassed that he's been writing letters to this dude. Cue romance, lmao.

At some point, he cuts the seme's hair (big loss there imo), and it's all fluffy and cute. If I remember right, the seme wears traditional Japanese clothes and his workshop is set up in a traditional house, and there are two kids that visit him all the time (the uke fixes the girl's hair at some point, too, to cheer her up after she's been bullied or something). I can't find it anywhere in my lists or on google, so if someone knows what I'm talking about, please let me know!

Oh, there's also another yaoi I'm looking for, because when I was looking for this one, I think I confused some details and got distracted and ended up finding neither one?? It's about an office worker whose colleague recommends he takes calligraphy classes because his handwriting is so bad, so he goes to the class and falls in love with the teacher. If I remember right, the main conflict is that he's too shy to be around the teacher, so he changes his calligraphy class to another, but the teacher finds out and is all "no way i wanna see you all the time, you can't go to another class :(" and then they sort their stuff out and start dating~~

Yeah, I guess it's not much to go on, but if anyone knows either of these mangas, please let me know~~ thanks!