He’s just a guy, and last I checked he’s not in a serious relationship with jay. Jay is going through a lot and victor is trying his best to help. You have to remember that victor is Jay’s fuck buddy, not his therapist. Sure jay is going through stuff but you can’t expect that finding all of that out so suddenly was a walk in the park for victor. In the end, both these characters are human and flawed. They both react in different ways. You can’t hold it against either of them.
I can, actually. You don't have to be someone's therapist to respect that they're having an emotional meltdown down because you asked to end a 'relationship' (end the bet thing, he thinks it's because he learned his past) and then you've lost a verrryy sentimental item of theirs and shout about how you didn't lose it when it's gone, THEN when they beg for space you yell more and storm out. I can absolutely blame him for his own bad behavior. People who are overstimulated or having a panic attack need understanding and patience, which Victor being a normal dumb man, doesn't have. People keep thinking I'm saying Jay is all innocent, he's not, but it doesn't mean we can't hold Victor accountable for making the situation worse.
Whatever helps you sleep at night man.
Keep acting abusive to the people in your life struggling with shit I guess, yikes
And yet again Victor throws a tantrum instead of respecting a traumatized person's boundaries. Especially after he DID "lose" the keychain, which held significant meaning. Yes it was taken but it was in his possession now it's not. He is in the wrong for that. When someone has understandable trust issues and is begging for some space to think and contain their overwhelming feelings, storming off like a child doesn't help anything. Especially under the circumstances.