i mean japanese people generally dont think that sleeping with a prostitute is cheating (im not saying uke is one) but with that you can imagine the rest
yeah this is true and they also don’t consider cheating as cheating unless they know it. i kinda read it somewhere and they said it’s okay or at least they don’t give a shit for their partner to cheat as long as they were not aware of it and i was like goddamn
Yea you'd be surprised how skewed Japanese people's perspectives are when it comes to cheating. It's so normalized in their country and it favors a lot towards men. If someone with a partner has sex with someone else even outside of marriage and it's just purely casual and physical then they don't consider it as cheating
I guess (???) that could be considered a type of open relationship?? A really fucked up one with no boundaries obviously, but still
Damn, that's fucked
But now it makes a lots of sense, I came across a lot of this situation mostly in Japanese mangas (Straight, BL though rarely on GLs) and I'm always bothered by how casual the characters are to sleep with someone they know are already in a relationship, also those annoying second male lead tryna pursue the MC, knowing that he/she already in a relationship instead of staying awaaaay
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So the uke (mistakenly knew) that the actor is dating that chic but still chose to sleep with him despite knowing that (although I know it's a misunderstanding) ... I mean if you were so sure he's dating someone why would you still sleep with that person? I am questioning his morals ...
Is it natural for japanese people to still engage in sex even knowing someone is already in a relationship?