Some baras are really good though! Try reading this one:
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/ookami_shounen_to_hamu_no_hito/
Its realistic, well paced and depicts the struggles of being gay along with realistic fear of being rejected. No overly hairy buff guys-- just pure, angst, sweetness and a dash of comedy (sometimes)
Shotacon.
Shota
Shota is a no.
What yaoi genre-tag you don't like/can't stand?
I don't like shota and bara at all and sometimes furry :P