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Can I ask what fma/fmab stands for? I thought it would be full metal alchemist but the abbreviation doesn't have a b.

Also she shouldn't be the one controlling how long you want to go to the gym for, don't know why she's making some kind of calculations on how long you should be at the gym for.

Don't really know how to help fix this other than have a conversation with her on why she hates your hyperfixation and why she wants you to be in the gym more and talk until you guys could get into middle ground, something both of you can agree on.

What fixing is there? You shouldn’t have to change urself in order to please your gf, ur hyper fixation is your personal interest and quite literally is a lazy excuse to breakup with someone over…there’s definitely something more to this.
Well are you willing to go to the gym? I mean as in if you too are down for it and it’s not just her pushing that onto you?
This might sound a bit cheesy or cliché but if her feelings are genuine she shouldn’t suggest things that alter who you are.
But since I don’t know the situation at hand…as long as she’s supporting you in the idea of gym and not expecting it from since it’s up to you…you shouldn’t have to even consider these as needing “fixing”. I do definitely suggest talking to her bcs how we interpret things aren’t always how people intended it come off as and vice versa.

fullmetal alchemist brotherhood and she says i like one of the characters too much

She pays for the gym bc she doesn’t want me gaining weight which is fair i suppose but ive been too busy to go recently (college and work)

ill try to talk to her again tomorrow, she was upset to she blocked me

I too am wondering what fma was lol I just assumed it stood for full metal alchemist

You should find someone who likes you for you. If you love FMA/FMAB then your partner should respect that. I don’t understand why she would breakup with you over that. And so what if you don’t go to the gym as much? She can’t complain about that while putting down your interests. (Also fun fact, I used to teach at the high school the creator of FMA graduated from! She has a bunch of signed posters there :))

Then I was correct LMFAO I keep overguessing myself.

Oh thank god I thought it was gonna be something like criminal

im jealous

HELPPP I’m sorry but what the hell nah ur gf kinda weird if she has an issue with what …you like? Acting as if you cant have form interest and have a hobby.

Well just BCS she pays it does not mean you’re obligated to go? If she’s using that to guilt trip you then you really need to discuss this with her.
Id understand looking out for your partners health and all but if you feel uncomfortable or can’t find the time she needs to understand that. She has no say in whether you gain or lose etc… it’s all up to you.
Blocking you is wild.
You need to bring this up
She shouldn’t be acting out like this or even putting you into such a predicament

Bro that's not your fault tf I shouldn't be saying this bc I don't know yall relationship like that but If you want to work out more, it should be because you want to, not because you feel pressured.It’s okay for your girlfriend to care about your health, but it’s not fair if she’s trying to control your interests or push you into something you’re too busy for.

Your FMA/B hyper-fixation is just a part of what makes you, you. And that's not a bad thing. It’s normal to be passionate about things, and a partner should respect that, even if they don’t share the same enthusiasm. If you truly want to stay together then acknowledge her feelings cause people sometimes feel neglected when their partner has a strong hyper-fixation, even if it’s harmless If she’s worried about you liking a character too much, gently clear that up and tell her that u been to busy and shit to go to the gym.

Exactly.. you said this so well..
ATP this all feels really unfair and now I even feel bad abt this situation cuzs op shouldn’t feel this way.

i don’t mind going to the gym at all. She pays for it at urges me to go but we have never gotten into a fight about it until now. Its a nice gym and she says she wasted her money and that im going to gain weight by not going. All i could really do is apologize. I dont think she is trying to fix me but sometimes she suggests things that would look good or make me look better which i agree with. Like she said i should get my nipples pierced when i turn 18 and so i did. She was right about it. Im not really good at reading people so im not sure how to fix our fight

i dont think ive been neglecting her because of my hyper fixation but ill ask her about it. i have adhd and i have medication i should be taking for it. I just haven’t because it makes me feel shitty. It isn’t an excuse for my hyper fixation. Thanks you and ill ask her about it. if she wants me to take my medication again i will

i dont feel uncomfortable but i will still talk about it. My friends got mad at me for the same reason. I don’t like that she blocks me but she’s always done it. Ill talk to her about that too

Id understand how it might be frustrating to her since it’s coming out of her pocket but putting that on you , only serves to make you feel like shit? saying you’ll gain weight by not going is not an appropriate response to that at all. You guys should’ve settled the gym situation when there was no activity for a while so it’s not an empty payment on her and it’s not a constant thing you’d be reminded abt. I do suggest if you realistically cant see yourself going rn due to a busy schedule maybe end it until you do have the time or if you are gonna commit to the gym you should free some time up but don’t drag it on it’s not doing any good on either of you guys.
I can see how she would have some suggestions and if you’re okay with it and it’s not overbearing on you then that’s fine.
What I’ve learned is that it shouldn’t be on the other person to know or figure out another persons thoughts, communication is what will clear this up doing this back and forth will be draining on both parties.
You shouldn’t have to read others it’s not your job too

Please talk it out and draw some conclusions from it. If this is being brought up by others then tbh I’m not sure …
Ughh I find it so irritating when habits are allowed or just dismissed BCS it’s something they have always done.. the reason it continues to happen is BCS nothing is done abt it
I know the feeling of being blocked in order to not deal with a fight but that doesn’t resolve it. If anything it makes it worse.
Bring that up to her and if needed you’ll have to come with some sort of understanding that shit shouldn’t just slide by

Some of you get in relationships with your biggest haters. If your girlfriend wants to break up with you for those reasons that simply means she doesn’t love you for you and it’s good riddance pookie
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Bro just went straight to the point

Bro put the books down and hit the gym. You want pussy or not

i can get pussy whenever i want, i however don’t want my girlfriend to break up with me. We've been together for 3 almost 4 years now.