
oh and disclaimer, if you wanna fight me on ml's rights to express his emotions and rage and disappointment or whatever, dont. i already thought abt it but i genuinely just don't think it's that srs for him compared to what mc hv been through plus people hv said this but ml hv been chased by mc and nvr made the same effort even after they got into a relationship. so yea no

Saying it isn't that serious for ML is wild. His abusive father, broken family, getting bullied in school, life continuously controlled by his aunt, getting emotionally, physically abused by his grandpa and aunt. Everyone getting close to him for their own agenda. I wonder how you would've cope with that to say that is easy.
Also I do get your point MC's character. It is legit. But do not read stories with heavy partiality on 1 character.

what I'm saying is that stuff isn't srs for him in the relationship aspect, the romantic one. his trauma and stuff is srs, just again to emphasise, everyone have issues, no one issue is more important than another and he is given so much, and i mean so much empathy by the writer, and most readers that people forget mc's issues.
yea ig what's ml's feeling is valid too plus considering his trauma and all that but holy shit it must've been fucking EXHAUSTING to be mc. everyone's putting their emotional baggage onto you while you yourself CANT even fucking understand emotions. like that's tiring asf. I'm so tired reading everyone in this story completely disregarding what mc's feeling just bc he can't and do not know how to show it. he's been dealing with everyone's issues and he's stuck solving his own issues himself bc ml and others are already so caught up in their own shit. but still, this relationship was nvr stable nor equal cus ml still haven't been trying to understand mc like at all. it's pretty obv he has problems with understanding "normal people" (neurotypicals) 's social cues and morals, but no one made an effort to know why he's the way he is. and i think STILL TO THIS DAY, after reading the raws months ago, that mc deserves better. sure ml has his rights to be feeling what he is feeling but man what kinda main character syndrome ahh dialogue and monologue, "everyone always approaches me with secret intentions", pooks, that's literally how human relationships works, you ain't that special or rare but oh well. it's like watching a 12y/o discover school drama