This manwha should be the standard.

I've always been looking for a BL manwha like this. Fluff and nice balance of chacha. I can't really complain cause i might sound like a hypocrite but,. i honestly hate how much VIOLENT sex scenes are in BL. Or violent stories overall. "Oh, then just don't read them, they're not made for you lololol" yeah, okay sure. But what i mean is, it's everywhere, and gems like these are being burried under it. And i feel like there's too much violence out there that it feels suffocating. I try and try to find Bl's that are healthy, but sometimes I don't see much that i just settle for the violent ones.